Dating multiple guys at the same time
This is unfamiliar territory, and it is perfectly natural to have questions. Here are a few tips and tricks for juggling two people — or more! I had a friend in college who happened to be dating two people at the same time for over a year.
DON’T get intimate with everyone – A good night kiss here and there is fine, however once you start getting naked with multiple people things can get complicated and feelings can get hurt FAST. The more people you date, the more likely you are to find someone you really click with. DO go on multiple dates with different guys during the week – If you’re still in the casual dating and getting to know each other phase, there’s nothing wrong with hanging out with a couple different people during the week.I’m not opposed to dating multiple people at the same time as long as you go about it in a way that’s respectful to yourself and the people you’re dating. DON’T go on multiple dates in the same night – Ok, I admit there have been times when I’ve gone on a lunch date with Guy A and then met Guy B for a drink later that day.There comes a time in everybody’s dating career when your dance card suddenly becomes fuller than you know what to do with.One day, you’re swiping sullenly through Tinder bemoaning the lack of attractive, normal-seeming men that are possibly as tall as they say they are in their profiles, and the next, you find yourself drafting a spreadsheet to keep track of the nine dates that you have somehow booked for one week. Like all things in life, your dating life will ebb and flow.